Find Soul Mate - Dating Game
Find you Soul Mate - Playing the Dating Game
A lot of guys, and myself included, seem to believe in this unspoken set of rules that make up the "dating game." Such ridiculousness includes how many days to wait before calling that phone number, how many dates to wait until "going for it," what kind of kiss to give, and whether or not your girl is into you.
Well let me expand upon those for a minute to give a better understanding of these rules, in case you decide to ignore them that is. We will start with when to call.
Most men when they get a phone number form a really gorgeous gal want to call her right away so that they can see her again and possibly move the relationship forward. However this is a big "NO NO." The reason why you MUST wait is because you DO NOT want to come across as NEEDY, DESPERATE, or BORED. The desire to call might be great but if she thinks that all you have going on for you right now is her phone number and nothing else she probably wont be interested. You MUST give the impression of being busy AND that she is not eh greatest thing in the world that just happened because then you will appear desperate. The last thing anybody wants is to be dating someone who is desperate. So wait a day or two, then call, and CALL ONLY ONCE. Give them a chance to call you back. If you never get a call back wait a week then try again, sometimes people are just busy or are away, or whatever. The point is you DONT know so don't harass someone by calling them everyday, or even worse every hour. Just wait, patience is a virtue and it will payoff.
Lets say you8 get the call back, the best thing to do is not ask them when you would like to meet again its to let them know you are already going out again, maybe in the next few fays or the next weekend and ask if they want to join you. Remember they want to be with somebody who does things, not just waits around for life to happen. Also if she knows you are going out again she might be more inclined to join you or meet you there instead of let her "fish" get caught by someone else's net.
After you have gone out a couple times, either by her joining you or you joining her, then you can ask if she would like to go somewhere more personal. Remember we aren't really trying to just get "laid" we are trying to find your soul mate. The only way this can happen is if you take the time to get to know them first. Without this the relationship will seem, and most likely be shallow, at least in the beginning.
Never kiss a girl if she seems distant or distracted wait till you FEEL her comfort zone accept you. This is kind of hard to explain, the other option is to just ask her. No girl I have ever known has been offended by me asking if I could kiss her, its only when you do it and they aren't comfortable with you yet that they get offended and often want nothing to do with you.
So just remember be calm, be patient, and wait, because just like momma always said. Good things come to those who wait.
A lot of guys, and myself included, seem to believe in this unspoken set of rules that make up the "dating game." Such ridiculousness includes how many days to wait before calling that phone number, how many dates to wait until "going for it," what kind of kiss to give, and whether or not your girl is into you.
Well let me expand upon those for a minute to give a better understanding of these rules, in case you decide to ignore them that is. We will start with when to call.
Most men when they get a phone number form a really gorgeous gal want to call her right away so that they can see her again and possibly move the relationship forward. However this is a big "NO NO." The reason why you MUST wait is because you DO NOT want to come across as NEEDY, DESPERATE, or BORED. The desire to call might be great but if she thinks that all you have going on for you right now is her phone number and nothing else she probably wont be interested. You MUST give the impression of being busy AND that she is not eh greatest thing in the world that just happened because then you will appear desperate. The last thing anybody wants is to be dating someone who is desperate. So wait a day or two, then call, and CALL ONLY ONCE. Give them a chance to call you back. If you never get a call back wait a week then try again, sometimes people are just busy or are away, or whatever. The point is you DONT know so don't harass someone by calling them everyday, or even worse every hour. Just wait, patience is a virtue and it will payoff.
Lets say you8 get the call back, the best thing to do is not ask them when you would like to meet again its to let them know you are already going out again, maybe in the next few fays or the next weekend and ask if they want to join you. Remember they want to be with somebody who does things, not just waits around for life to happen. Also if she knows you are going out again she might be more inclined to join you or meet you there instead of let her "fish" get caught by someone else's net.
After you have gone out a couple times, either by her joining you or you joining her, then you can ask if she would like to go somewhere more personal. Remember we aren't really trying to just get "laid" we are trying to find your soul mate. The only way this can happen is if you take the time to get to know them first. Without this the relationship will seem, and most likely be shallow, at least in the beginning.
Never kiss a girl if she seems distant or distracted wait till you FEEL her comfort zone accept you. This is kind of hard to explain, the other option is to just ask her. No girl I have ever known has been offended by me asking if I could kiss her, its only when you do it and they aren't comfortable with you yet that they get offended and often want nothing to do with you.
So just remember be calm, be patient, and wait, because just like momma always said. Good things come to those who wait.
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